Whatever you want to call it, you need to surround yourself by like minded people. That does not mean you need to change out all the people in your life, but it does mean you need to make room for a few more. The people on your current 'playlist' know the you that you are trying to change. They are comfortable with the habits you want to rewire. They, too, are scared of change. And you are now striving for change, striving to move out of your comfort zone. Look around you and reach out. The easiest way to do this is through social networking. Add some people who have reached the goals you are working for. Add some people that are working toward goals that resemble yours. Add some people that have done some crazy stuff!! You can learn from them all. Support is not tangible but it is critical. Build a team of cheerleaders, cheer on others, and watch yourself bloom!